Ever have one of those moments when a song comes on and you just know somehow the universe wanted to confirm to you that it knows exactly how you feel?

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gohelenmarie:

BE the GREATEST! The whole world is waiting for that next “BEST THING”…is it YOU?….

gohelenmarie:

BE the GREATEST! The whole world is waiting for that next “BEST THING”…is it YOU?….

(Source: mrgif, via gohelenmarie)

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Erik Erikson’s stages of human development~

Stage Intimacy vs. Isolation

In this stage,which usually occurs between ages 18-35, people begin to seek companionship and love. People seek fulfillment and satisfaction in these relationships of deep intimacy, without it isolation may occur. 

I know for me this is stage registered personally as I am in this age group. I have experienced many difficulties in seeking, accepting or trusting intimacy in my personal relationships.  I have my theories as to why this is but I have only fairly recently admitted that it is natural to want love, and I only revealed it recently which  tell you how deeply I had worked to ignore it. 

The maladapation was/is a history of dysfunctional, abusive, unfulfilled relationships and promiscuity which affected my ability to create “a normal life” ie. Marriage.

Now that I have admitted my needs to myself I can actively work, not only to seek to create it in my relationships with family and friends but also to feel comfortable exchanging it with them.

Isolation, as a disassociation definitely promotes self-absorption, which is a characteristic of the next stage. 




“Erikson’s Stages of Development” Learning-Theories.com. Retrieved March 3, 2012.

Erik Erikson’s stages of human development~

Stage Intimacy vs. Isolation

In this stage,which usually occurs between ages 18-35, people begin to seek companionship and love. People seek fulfillment and satisfaction in these relationships of deep intimacy, without it isolation may occur.

I know for me this is stage registered personally as I am in this age group. I have experienced many difficulties in seeking, accepting or trusting intimacy in my personal relationships.  I have my theories as to why this is but I have only fairly recently admitted that it is natural to want love, and I only revealed it recently which  tell you how deeply I had worked to ignore it. 
The maladapation was/is a history of dysfunctional, abusive, unfulfilled relationships and promiscuity which affected my ability to create “a normal life” ie. Marriage.
Now that I have admitted my needs to myself I can actively work, not only to seek to create it in my relationships with family and friends but also to feel comfortable exchanging it with them.
Isolation, as a disassociation definitely promotes self-absorption, which is a characteristic of the next stage. 
“Erikson’s Stages of Development” Learning-Theories.com. Retrieved March 3, 2012.

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This how he makes me feel… :/

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HONEYGRiP’s question of the day

If you could only get one for the rest of your life, which would you choose to receive: the most amazingest head or the most amazingest dick/pussy?

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When I first found the confidence to wear my hair short and natural without the benefit of my beloved perm and weaves. I went out one night with my boy Dre. He picks me up, I’m all cute and styled up (especially since I felt the need to overcompensate because of my (what I thought was underwhelming hair) and he says to me, Oh. you’re going natural?! it looks cool. You like Blake Griffin. Me: *Tears* Take.Me.Home. Now everytime I see this guy. I laugh to myself. He does a great deadpan (like me) and I must admit he does have a certain je ne sais quoi… hahahahaa

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signedfury:

Assumptions: The Devil’s Gatorade

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Nuh uh, Nigga fuck you! 
I’m throughly against withholding love of any kind. In fact, I’m totally over it so if you are so above taking a few minutes out of your day to be sweet, thoughtful and generous enough to make another person you claim to care about feel special, take your clown ass on away from here. 
GIVE UP THE LOVE, PERIOD. NO EXCUSES…
And to all you high and mighty mother fuckers who claim that you shouldn’t wait until one stupid day out of the year to say ‘I love you’ to the ones you do love, you are right. But if it makes them feel good who cares.  You shouldn’t purposely choose to ignore this day in an effort to avoid falling in with the crowd either. 
If you want to be so fucking profound, go to work on Labor day.
Fuck outta here. Happy Valentine’s Day everyone. I hope someone makes you smile today, makes your burst inside or makes your heart melt and if they don’t tell them I said 
FUCK YOU!
-Signed Management.

Nuh uh, Nigga fuck you! 

I’m throughly against withholding love of any kind. In fact, I’m totally over it so if you are so above taking a few minutes out of your day to be sweet, thoughtful and generous enough to make another person you claim to care about feel special, take your clown ass on away from here. 

GIVE UP THE LOVE, PERIOD. NO EXCUSES…

And to all you high and mighty mother fuckers who claim that you shouldn’t wait until one stupid day out of the year to say ‘I love you’ to the ones you do love, you are right. But if it makes them feel good who cares.  You shouldn’t purposely choose to ignore this day in an effort to avoid falling in with the crowd either. 

If you want to be so fucking profound, go to work on Labor day.

Fuck outta here. Happy Valentine’s Day everyone. I hope someone makes you smile today, makes your burst inside or makes your heart melt and if they don’t tell them I said 

FUCK YOU!

-Signed Management.

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