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Quick Story: Related to Natural hair…

(For all my natural hair sisters who reblogged my previous post about the documentary It’s only (a) Natural

I went to a dinner party a few weeks ago and it was like a mix your own drinks type of function.
me with my transitioning short hair & my girl with her long, luxurious weave step up to the bar and a guy offers to make HER a drink
I stand there
watching
- not saying a thing
- then when he’s finished preparing HER this marvelous concoction complete with a twist of lemon.
  
  he hands me the knife to cut my own lemons and shit
- I’m like wow.
  - He says: we’ll you look like the strong, DIY type
  - DICKHEAD
    
    yes… I can totally relate. Every day I’m tempted to throw some crack and tracks up in this bish…
    
    I’m making the men uncomfortable and the white people uncomfortable.
    
    when it’s nappy they ain’t happy. when it’s relaxed they are relaxed -ya dig?
    
    People keep telling me “Real Men” love natural hair and they are not afraid. To those people, I would like to say (as I sit here alone at 1:00 in the morning on a Friday night?) tell those real men to come find me.
    
    All, I’m saying is
    when I was weaved out I wasn’t home at this hour -_-
    
    Can anyone relate?

doubledutchcosmetics answered: Always be yourself. That guy wasn’t meant you you then. A good one will come around. Just be patient.
savvystrands answered: Oh, I know how you feel. I posted a comment on your tumblr blog since I talked too much and it wouldn’t fit here. Peace… from Savvy Strands
savvystrands reblogged this from honeygrip and added:

can certainly relate...dilemma girl. I just say those that hate locs, can kick rocks!...
nowyouknowmoi answered: I’ve been natural for 2 years now and I’ve noticed that I get old dudes all up in my biz and no guys near my age EVER. Very awkward.
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