By Honeygrip
If the newest issue of STAR magazine is to be believed, Justin & Rihanna have been getting it in!! I was ready to chalk this one up as pure gossip, even though the word for weeks has been that these two were super-bunned up at a VMA afterparty, recently.All while Justin's gal pal Jessica Biel is still clinging to what's left of her relationship with him. (When will these chicks realize that how you get them is how you lose them-Ahem Cameron Diaz!!)Now Perez Hilton is reporting that Justin & Jessica, have indeed broke up! It seems that JT did the dirty deed over the phone sometime last month...smh!Now, I agree that these 2 as a couple would be a good look, Rihanna better get a GRiP and not take this one too seriously.
By Honeygrip
And I can't!! Why is it that the only black men who don't have a problem committing aren't looking to commit with more black women. I mean I'll give the 'bride' here some credit. Who couldn't fall for a person with gorgeous hair like that, but I mean seriously speaking. We all know the statistics...So really, what is black women's problem? Ok- what is our main problem??
I have been single (even while heavily committed in a relationship) for far too long. And now in my 30's it's becoming increasingly clear to me that no matter how black women slice it, we can't really win. I used to be told that my main problem was I was 'too smart', 'too seasoned' and 'too experienced'. So in an effort to make my relationships work, I dumbed myself down, and even to some degree, dulled myself down. Just so, any reasonably, decent and seemingly worthy fellow I came across wouldn't think I was 'too high-maintenance'. Now I find myself looking around at my prospective mate-as too put it simply- just mediocre. Trust that, when the situation is the reverse, the saddest loser, deadbeat, unemployed guy will always set his standards WAAAY higher than he deserves. And even when he gets that girl, who is educated, self sufficient and completely worthy of a 'good man' that nigga will still treat her like shit. Then on the other hand when women raise their standard and demand that a guy comes with his own job, perhaps is own living situation and (God, Forbid) money?! Pssf, well you know that bitch is a gold-digger, right?!
Is it really fair to tell an attractive female, who is independent & who went to school and works hard that her problem is that she sets her standards too high, or she's too picky in her criteria of what she looking for in a mate? The older I get the more I feel for women who have it together.
Sorry, but I really don't get it, and after looking at this very lovely, wedding album I wondered, what can I do to get on the right track? Any Advice for me??
I LOOOVED this movie as a child and Freddy is my favorite horror movie villian. What do you think of the new version?!
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